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Migrants

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Migrant. Do you consider yourself a migrant? In the narrow UN definition, most of us would not qualify since we are not employed by our adopted country. But in the broader sense of living either temporarily or permanently in a country where we were not born, and having acquired some significant social ties to this county, most of us would qualify. Like the Bible says, we are strangers and aliens in the land of promise.

There are many helpful suggestions for migrants that we may not have taken personally. Whether we are long-time migrants in the country we serve or have just arrived, some common migrant thoughts can trip us up. Here are a few for you to consider:

Comparisons between our native country and our adopted country
Comparisons can be a slippery slope to the blues. Our comparisons may make our native country, with all its perks, seem all good. Then the reverse is true of our adopted country. In this skewed condition, our host country is all bad.

We can start down this slide when the day is exceptionally hot and humid, or when we cannot find our favorite comfort food. Say you live in a place where you cannot get good chocolate, and the stash you brought is depleted. And, its been raining for four days straight.  If we don’t head it off quickly, we could be in the dungeon of despair by lunchtime. [Read more…]

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Filed Under: Life--Cross culturally, Work--Cross Culturally Tagged With: change, comparisons, self worth

TCK Friendships

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As you may know, our two sons grew up, for more than half their childhood years, outside their home country. That makes them Third Culture Kids, or TCKs. Recently I have been thinking about how our sons react to their world. I wondered how much their experience as Third Culture Kids actually affects them today, now that they are adults. I was especially interested in how TCKs make friends, and how their experience differs from others in that area.

For a refresher, I looked at David Pollock and Ruth Van Reken’s  textbook called, Third Culture Kids. The chapter on Relational Patterns  discusses  how Third Culture Kids (TCKs) make friendships and how that affects them later in life.

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Filed Under: Attitudes & Emotions, Children, Life--Cross culturally Tagged With: Children, friendship, meeting people, relationships, Third Culture Kids

Most Dangerous Times

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Do you know your dangerous times? Everybody has them. Moreover,  if we live and work outside our home culture, we face special dangers. Parents and friends feel concerned for our health and safety. That’s a good thing. Like the Randy Newman song, says, “It’s a Jungle Out There.” It is great to know that people who love us pray for us. Who knows where we would be if they didn’t.

Sometimes the dangers become more acute, more threatening.  Recently I received an email from a PW asking for prayer because her host country is about to crumble. General strikes, mobs, rioting- turmoil everywhere.

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Filed Under: Life--Cross culturally, Spiritual Life Tagged With: danger, exhausted, waiting

Frogs of the World, Unite!

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We call ourselves frogs, my husband and I. It all started with the international symbol for TCKs (Third Culture Kids). That symbol is a blue circle that overlaps a yellow circle with green between. Kermit the Frog used to sing, “It’s not that easy being green. . . ” That led us to think of frogs. They are green and can live on land or in the water.

Personally, I don’t think it is only TCKs who feel they are a blend of cultures, not really one or another.

We tell people we are from our passport country. But just get us back there for a week and we see just how much we are like our host country. Some of the customs, thought patterns, and life-style of both places have gotten all mixed up in us.

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Filed Under: Life--Cross culturally Tagged With: isolation, lonely, reverse culture shock

Lessons Learned in the Garden

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When I get on Skype with my family, one of the common threads of conversation is the weather and what is blooming or ripening in our various homes. One sister lives in the desert of Arizona and another sister and dad in central USA. I, on the other hand, live in the tropics of SE Asia. I was excited when I heard the crocus had bloomed in Oklahoma, the first sure sign of Spring. At the same time my other sister talked about their lemon harvest and all she does to be able to have lemonade all year round.

So, Susan’s, Lessons Learned in the Garden was especially meaningful to me. I hope you are blessed as you think about what she has learned from her gardening.

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Filed Under: Life--Cross culturally, Work--Cross Culturally

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